Too many assumptions

Girls also misunderstand guys. A girl often mistakenly assumes that if a guy is the right guy for her, he will know what she wants and will automatically consider her needs and do the things she does to show he cares. When he doesn’t fulfill this unrealistic expectation, then she becomes unnecessarily frustrated and discouraged. How a girl talks can make a world of a difference. On the female planet, when two girls get together they enjoy the opportunity to share freely the mishaps, frustrations, disappointments, and complaints of the week. A girl’s willingness to “share all” is actually a compliment to the other girl; it’s a sign of trust, goodwill, and friendship. While this gesture in our world is seen a putting your best foot forward, in guy’s world, it’s not. A guy could easily get the wrong impression. When a girl dwells on negative feelings or problems in her life, instead of valuing her willingness to share openly, a guy mistakenly assumes that she is difficult to please. Just as a girl is attracted to a guy who shows interest in her, a guy is attracted to a girl who clearly can be pleased. When she appears difficult to please, he may become turned off.
To make the best impression and get to know someone effectively, it’s important that we first get the chance to know the positive side, take it slow it’s all about the perfect timing. Then, when we experience the challenges that come up in the relationship, we are much more capable of being accepting and understanding. Too much intimacy, too quickly, can cause girls to become needy and cause the guy to pull away. Just as guys have a tendency to rush into physical intimacy, girls make the mistake of rushing into complete emotional intimacy.

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