The Older Man Appeal…

Unless he looks like Majek Fashesk{offense intended}, dating an older guy can be a real exciting experience. I just have to give credit to those special kind of men like George Clooney or Boris Kodjoe or Gabriel Macht or Leonardo DiCaprio or Sean Penn or Pierce Brosnan{i have a very very long list of them:-)}, men that look better now than they looked in their twenties. These guys are like fine wine, the older they get the better they look and that’s not all! So let me just give you a few more good reasons to even consider dating a guy a couple of years older than you…

1-He is a complete person:We are all young, modern, educated women hustling to make our own money and we need a man that can keep up with our tempo. “Behind every great man is an even greater woman”, don’t forget that ladies. We need a strong male figure –an experienced, successful and, most importantly, well-balanced man.

2-He knows how to “work” it:Let me tell you this: When it comes to sex, I always prefer being a student then being a teacher. And being experienced in the bedroom doesn’t mean just memorizing every image and instruction in Kama Sutra. It takes time, practice and knowledge and he sure has had enough time to practice and perfect the technique of lovemaking.{trust me} Not only are older men typically extremely sexually experienced, but they really listen to their partner.

3-No jealous episodes:The older man has had enough time to validate his ego (and we all know how tricky a thing like male ego can be). He knows how much he’s worth and he knows why you picked him. He is not insecure and he won’t check up on you or try to control you{well,most of them}. He knows exactly what made his previous girlfriends/lovers jealous and he will try to avoid doing things that might cause you to act the same.

4-He won’t change you:Younger guys are typically all about the changes. It could be everything from the way you dress all the way to the time that you go to bed. When you’re dating older men, you’ll notice that they won’t try to change you, in fact, they’ll appreciate the woman that you’ve grown to become!

5-You have the excuse to act childish:When my older lover says, “God, you’re acting like a child!” I give him the cutest look and reply, “Yeah, I’m your little girl and you have to do that for me!”, then I do a childish, cute pout and flutter my eyelashes(through my glasses of course). That always does the trick and he smiles and gives me a kiss, no matter what kind of a serious discussion (read: fight) we were having at the moment.{I dare you to try that that with a guy close to your age..haaa!}

6-He does and says all the right things:He knows forgetting your birthday would be an unforgivable sin. He knows that between an early-morning sex and breakfast in bed you would always choose the latter. When you are sad, he says exactly what you need to hear. He knows that you are mad even if you say that everything is OK and he wants to talk about it.

7-He always has interesting stories to tell: His “book of life” had more time to be written than yours so there will always be an interesting story he can tell. You can listen to him for days and still not hear everything. This quality makes him an ideal person to take with you to a dinner with friends. He will always be the center of attention and you will just love that{I know I do}.

Honestly,at the beginning, dating out of my age group was never my thing but once I laid eyes on HIM{you all know about Mio Amante right?}, that rule disappeared as if it was never there. So never say “never”… I guess that is my rule now. What do you think about it? Have you ever dated somebody considerably older than you? And how did that turn out?20130301-140815.jpg20130301-140826.jpg20130301-140834.jpg20130301-140842.jpg20130301-141118.jpg20130301-141132.jpg

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