Oops!He Did It Again…

Call it honesty if you’d like, but there are conversations filled with things guys say that women hate. It’s a case of freedom of speech gone wild! As a matter of fact, as I write this, I continue to come up with more ways our male counterparts put their crusty feet in their mouths. For now though, I’ll start with what irritates me.

What has to be worst of things guys say that I hate, is to smile. Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful, but more often than not I am asked to share a grin while minding my own business. I should be able to walk into any place without having a total stranger request that I smile. Its bad enough that my face already looks like a smiley.What is it that I’m supposed to be smiling at anyway?!

Perhaps you’re not exactly using your degree. This doesn’t give any guy the right to pat you on the head and brush off your moneymaker as “just a job.” In today’s economy he should be glad you’re employed, period! If it’s an honest living, work your heart out. I told a guy friend of mine that I was doing my internship somewhere,he asked about pay and I told him I wasn’t getting paid,I’m just interested in the experience. The look on his face was priceless,how is the fact that I’m not getting paid paining you? It’s not like I’m asking you for money,abi?

There is nothing wrong with giving harmless compliments. We girls are guilty of looking twice at a hottie too, right? However, even the most confident woman doesn’t want to hear her guy go on and on about how big someone’s butt is. “Oh my God, Bunmi!” To be honest guys it’s really tacky.

Seriously, ladies, any man over the age of 18 knows what he wants, or doesn’t want, in a relationship. It’s time for him to define the status! He knows what he likes in a car and in a sneaker; his choice in a woman is no different. Either he’s all in or he’s not, so don’t accept things as merely “complicated.” I don’t even like hearing that statement,complicated koo…complex ni.

Just because I’m a size six doesn’t give me the right to make fun of voluptuous women. Same holds true for the men. Yet, I have been on several short-lived dates where I’ve heard the line “I don’t like fat chicks!” managed to fall out of the mouths of idiots. Tell me I’m not alone here!

In what is borderline sexual harassment, a cat call gets on my last nerve! What is a cat call, you ask? By all means, take your pick: hey baby; yo, baby; baby girl. Clearly, some guys have a deep-seeded issue with parenting, or the lack thereof. Cat calls are annoying, demeaning, and just ridiculous!

Guys like to impress women by boasting about how skilled they are in the bedroom. Maybe somewhere, they were told that talking about what they can do to us is a good idea. Unless there is a video available for download, he shouldn’t be bragging about his sex drive. A real man doesn’t have to brag, anyway. However, it makes for an interesting challenge though. Truth or dare anyone?

So these are a few of the topics, filled with things guys say that I hate. It’s about time the fellows know that silence is golden. Here’s a tip for the men reading this: shut the hell up! Ladies, do you have anymore to add to this list? What things do men say that make your blood boil?