The Little Things…


Forgive me,my most loyal readers for the absence but I have been very ill physically and well,mentally. I would share with you as soon as I figure things out(it might take longer than I thought), while I was quarantined I had a lot of time to spend with myself,so I drowned in Netflix and observing people at my window as they went on with their daily activities, a little creepy(I know) but someone has to do the dirty job.

I saw a break up, hook up, a cheating couple even a verbal war between two girls, but I noticed something in particular, sometimes it can be the little things that matter in a relationship that make or break it. The least but obvious things really help to make your connection and bond stronger. Little gestures, smiles, and “just because” moments can really make a big statement. So, I decided to make a list of little things that I think matter in a relationship. Enjoy…

One of the things that matter in a relationship that makes the biggest statement is saying these three little words. We don’t say it as often as we should, but sometimes throughout your day at work or at home or in school(in my case obviously), you just need to hear, “I Love You”. The next time, before you get off the phone with your significant other, say these three little words before you hang up the call.

Going out and spending time together or even making a date night at home, can really help keep your relationship exciting and alive. Sometimes we get in the same boring routine of coming home, eating dinner, watching TV, and going to bed. Date night can really help wake up your relationship and bring back those fond memories of when you were first dating.

Guys, not only is it important to remember these special dates in a relationship, but it’s also important that you want to celebrate these dates. It doesn’t have to be something over the top and expensive either, just a little card that lets them know how you feel can make all the difference.

Laughter can be the best medicine for a relationship whether you’re having a bad day or not. It shows that you feel comfortable with one another and can be yourselves. It could be a silly joke, playing a trick on each other, or even just a sneak tickle attack that just brightens up your day and makes you smile.

Saying thank you and showing your partner how much you appreciate what they do for you, really shows how much you love them. A little appreciation is as high on the list as saying the words, “I Love You”. It can motivate and encourage your significant other to keep doing his/her best because you have shown how much it means to you and how much they mean to you.

Telling your spouse/partner/bf/gf/etc how amazing they look, how proud you are of them, or how good a cook they are really goes a long way. With just one compliment, you can turn someone’s day around, and if you make it a point to do this often, you could really earn some extra brownie points for the bedroom!

This is probably the most important thing to me. When you are loyal to someone you protect them,always have their best interests at heart, and you always want the best for them and you try as much as possible to make them better. Loyalty is everything because you would always do what ever it takes to make them happy.

What are some of the little things that matter to you in your relationship? What was something little that really made a big impact?